ofcourse..everything makes sense now, the date helped out recall everything and now that i have realized who bongi was..*would not like to mention his "undercover" name*, i saw a skillful player, well bongi correct me if i am wrong, all i asked was "do you play here often?"..i didnt get a reply therefore i didnt respond back, the reason for me wanting to know was so that i could make a new pal on the server, prehaps learn a few techniques from him, never did i ask him to leave the server and join another :/ it was a misinterpretation which is out in the clear